Girls Who Stay Single For Large Gaps Of Time Actually End Up The Happiest
You see it everywhere, TV, the movies, even just walking down the street. Society would like to have us think that we need to be in a relationship in order to be happy. On the contrary, the happiest girls are the ones who have learned how to be happy on their own. They are self-sufficient, independent, strong willed, and comfortable in their own skin. They don't need to be in a relationship in order to find happiness. They are the girls who in high school focused on their studies, hobbies, and sports; things other than boys. They are the girls who decided to take a break from the dating scene.
Despite what society would like us to believe, that we need to be in a meaningful relationship in order to be happy, these strong single girls are often the happiest. They have learned to focus on themselves and their own needs. They build lasting friendships and are free to pursue their goals, nothing to hold them back. They have learned that their lives don't need to revolve around "love". There is more to life then chasing after boys.
Girls who have been single for longer gaps of time often don't care how long they might remain single. They don't need to be with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship. They don't need someone else to make them happy and they don't care how long they remain single. They can go to bed alone and get a good nights sleep. They aren't scared by the idea that they may never get married.
Girls who have been single for longer periods of time will never loose sight of who they are and when they do find that special person, it's going to be someone who encourages them to continue being the strong, independent woman they are. They will only date someone who makes them feel even happier then they already are, and right now, they're pretty darn happy.
*Read the great article inspiring this blog Here.